What Causes Overthinking, How to Stop It and RELAX

How to stop overthinking

Overthinking can seem harmless in small doses but it can lead to unnecessary stress and missed opportunities. Dwelling on the negative separates you from living life. So it’s important to know not only what causes overthinking but how to stop overthinking and relax. What Causes Overthinking If you: lie awake at night with racing thoughts…struggle with making decisions…replay past conversations…and predict worst possible outcomes, then…

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What Causes Self-Sabotaging Behavior?

What causes self-sabotaging behavior?

Our relationship with success and failure can be pretty complicated. There’s a subconscious struggle of which you may not be aware. A tug-a-war between intention and commitment. The subconscious way we deal with this is often what causes self-sabotaging behavior. Self-sabotaging behavior holds you back in life and can even set you further behind from where you started. This repetitive cycle can also leave you…

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How to Stop Excessive Worrying

How to stop excessive worrying

Give me a someone who never worries and I’ll give you oceanfront property in Kansas. Point is that you’re not alone – everyone worries now and then. But when worry becomes all consuming and affects your emotional and physical well-being, then knowing how to stop excessive worrying needs to be a priority. There’s so much to balance and lots of uncertainty in life which makes…

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Overcoming an Approval Seeking Personality and Low Self Esteem

applauding approval seeking low self esteem

Struggling with low self esteem or an approval seeking personality? You are not alone. It’s common to want to feel validated at times. But if seeking approval is when your self esteem and overall well-being are riding on the opinions of others, it’s time to learn how to let go of this temporary high. To put a stop to seeking validation from the outside, you…

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Living in the Present Moment Everyday Tools and Practices

Focus on the present moment and see what's out there

Wanting to live in the now isn’t enough. Like anything new, present moment living needs commitment and daily practice. Think of exercise as an integral support to your heart. Being present and exercising mindfulness in everyday life are a critical components to well-being. So here are everyday tools and practices that will keep you living in the present moment. Living in the present moment everyday is…

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How to Quickly Change Your Mindset and Attitude to Manifest and Live Your Best Life

How to Change Your Mindset and Attitude to Live Your Best Life. You've got this!

One of the trending self help hashtags lately on social media has been #mindsetiseverything. Learning fast manifestation techniques on how to change mindset and attitude about a job, people, financial wellness, health, and life in general is definitely a hot topic for good reason. If you want to know how to manifest what you want quickly in life, then the first step is to deeply commit…

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How to Avoid Complacency in a Relationship

Best tips on how to avoid complacency in a relationship

Overcoming complacency is an active part of my research to Own Your Best. The more feedback I received from my How to Stop Being Complacent article, the more I realized that that was just the tip of the iceberg. I found while complacency in relationships isn’t a direct cause for breakups, it is a silent but deadly catalyst. So while I don’t claim to be a relationship expert, I…

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How to Stop Being Complacent

How to Stop Being Complacent - phone scrolling

Not Trying + Negative Self-Talk = Complacency. This equation of a stalled lifestyle often derives from a smug (sorry but true) belief that you’re where you should be. Worse, do you lack motivation to improve? A sense of self-satisfaction or why bother trying mentality is kryptonite to living your best life. Don’t be in so deep that you don’t know how to stop being complacent.…

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6 Actionable Ways to Manage Your Life Now

My Own Your Best mission is to empower you to take ownership of your life. Many cliche quotes and articles to do your best to achieve goals are exhausting and lack substance. Similarly, the overused and abused excuse, “I did my best.” It was time to take this on. First, I researched examples of taking responsibility for your actions and translated the results to real, actionable strategies so…

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